Thozama Ntuba

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Thozama Ntuba

Thozama Ntuba was born in the Eastern Cape Libode rural areas Mdina Location, born by a married Christian couple. I have been admiring marriage since my early age through my parents as a result at that time I could picture myself being married having my own family. I grew up got married and experienced the up and downs of being married since there are good and challenging times in any relationship, but things got worse and let to a divorce.

I have tasted pain and bitterness of the divorce process and took all the steps of finding myself again. I went through divorce healing process hence I want to share my experience with you. You might be divorced about to be divorced or going through the process, maybe nothing to do about the above, but you need to know how people who are going through divorce feel. Your friend a colleague or anyone in your circle could go through this trauma so you need to know how to handle her.

Books by Thozama Ntuba

Divorce Healing Process how to heal from divorce trauma and carry on with life

My Book is to help the divorced on healing process after a Divorce and also to Society and the Church at large on how they can refrain from treating divorce as a stigma especially to us as females we end up being killed because we have WHAT PEOPLE AND THE CHURCH WILL SAY SYNDROME we are being judged and called names like return solders and that is wrong instead of given support by our Families Church and the Society.

I am a divorcee who went through the above experience hence am making this awareness. The Bible says God hate divorce but I have realize that He does not hate me as a divorcee and am here to say to divorcees we are still precious in the sight of the Lord and the road to Heaven still continues let us heal and serve God. My book has been approved by department of arts and culture and is available in 100 community libraries in South Africa and two University Libraries.

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Mhlengi Mahlaba
Mhlengi Mahlaba
6 months ago

Picking yourself up after such an experience and later on penning it down is very commendable, it shows how resilient you are.

Congratulations, more grace.

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Beatrice Ongeri
Beatrice Ongeri
6 months ago

Weh…Rich stuff here… @⁨ Thozamana. You have addressed a silent area in the society yet people are hurting. The fact that God hates divorce but doesn’t hate divorcee is a strong statement. Your creating awareness will bring healing to many hurting souls. I like the part of making yourself a major project to work on to finding yourself again in God. Hey your cover page is captivating..It demonstrates true healing.👏 Congratulations for your nomination.

Chwayita Mandla
Chwayita Mandla
6 months ago

Tozo’s book is so inspiring because as much as a person gets to be prepared and ready for marriage but there’s nothing prepares you for divorce and all that goes with it. So I find her book so helpful. Well done Tozo👏.

Mary-Joan Joseph
Mary-Joan Joseph
6 months ago

I find the book extremely helpfull and informative, has to help understand what divorce people go through. It also eas the stigma attached to being divorce, 🫠☺️

Lelethu Zepe
Lelethu Zepe
6 months ago

Thank You Thozama for this, I myself have never experienced it but I often hear people say that they wouldn’t wish it on their worst enemy and always imagine the worst thing ever that could happen to anyone.

I’m sure the experience shatters you, it stops you entirely. My message to you is that I pray that God gives you strength to carry on with life and prosper. To people going through the process I speak healing in your life and restoration, do not forget to lean on God as part of the healing process. A very interesting insight on divorce. Thank you and Congratulations Thozo 🙏

Charlene Ross
Charlene Ross
6 months ago

It is a good book to help with the healing process and guilt that you feel based on church and community expectations. It shows that God loves all .

colleen mapatwana
colleen mapatwana
6 months ago

Thozi is such an inspiration , many people die to self after divorce but she rose above the stigma that the Christian family attaches to divorce and wrote this masterpiece to encourage others who find themselves in similar situations. Well done my dear sister.

Lucia Mgidi
Lucia Mgidi
6 months ago

Thozama a very courageous lady, empowering others through her life journey and experience. She gives hope that this too will pass and you can start all over again. Have self love.

Sisanda Mpengesi
Sisanda Mpengesi
7 months ago

I salute Tozo for putting together a book to help people who are going through what she went through. It takes great courage to share openly about a painful past experience. This book educates even those who have not been through divorce on who to relate with people around us who are going through divorce.

Dr. Julianne Susanne Sansa Otim
Dr. Julianne Susanne Sansa Otim
7 months ago

It’s wonderful that through this beautiful book God turns around Toza’s painful experience to minister healing to others. I highly recommend “Divorce Healing Process”

Mzamo
Mzamo
7 months ago

Divorce Healing Process is a timely book with a more relevant message of God’s love and restoration for all people including divorced people

Thembi Mtshatsheni
Thembi Mtshatsheni
7 months ago

This is so mouthful and informative, may this book bring healing to many women and may the learn to forgive themselves for allowing negative thought to classify them.

Desire Greyvensteyn
Desire Greyvensteyn
7 months ago

I am privelaged to know Thozama on a personal level. When she first came to me with her unpublished book I had the chance to work with her, and go through the process of her completing and finally getting to print her book. I myself had gone through a divorce and the two of us got to share our experience and comfort one another and learn from each other. The book is inspired by God’s comfort and guidance. A book that must be read and hopefully will get others through their story.

Babalwa
Babalwa
7 months ago

This book is very good and powerful lt gives us strength and overcame challenges through this book

Lunga
Lunga
7 months ago

All the best Tozie we see you 👏 we love you 😍

Nthabiseng Montsho
Nthabiseng Montsho
7 months ago

Thozama Ntuba the Author of divorce healing process chronicled the events and process of the what now after one has encountered the divorce ordeal.

The trauma and scars which people live with becomes unbearable. With the statiatics of many Christians divorcing daily, it is imperative to have this book as a tool for healing and self forgiveness.

Well done to the Author for such great work.

Mazizonke Mkokeli
Mazizonke Mkokeli
7 months ago

God bless you my sister. Much needed insight in the mordent family. The enemy is attacking families full force, this is our last stand to fight back.

Happie Ndlovu
Happie Ndlovu
7 months ago

This book is very helpful and a very rare information was shared that helps a person to regain themselves.

Chule
Chule
7 months ago

I highly recommend this book for anyone facing a hard time of not knowing how to heal from trauma of Devorce. This book help you understand that Devorce is not the end of your life instead is new beginning, you’re being redirected into new beginnings. You’re given a second chance in life.

Febie
Febie
7 months ago

Very insightful

Sandi Powell-Rees
Sandi Powell-Rees
7 months ago

Divorce is always a difficult issue to move on from affecting not only the marriage but the children resulting from that marriage. Congratulations on your book Tozo. May it bring about a new understanding to those who need it.

Charmaine
Charmaine
7 months ago

A very relevant topic in today’s times. Wishing you much success with your book Tozo. May it help many many people struggling emotionally after divorce. God bless you.

Unati Nqabisa
Unati Nqabisa
7 months ago

Thozama is an inspiring author. Her book has really helped me to identify that, even after divorce, I still have a role to play in my family and society. As a result, I am inspired to start a support group for divorced people. I vote for Thozama Ntuba!

Nox
Nox
7 months ago

Great book , practically a guide to navigate your way to healing after divorce.

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