Barnabas & Grace Achoki

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Barnie and Grace Achoki are Marriage & Relationship Coaches, who write and speak on matters relationship and marriage.

They have a passion for preparing couples for marriage, nurturing strong and healthy rela- tionships, as well as healing and restoring relation- ships.

They are the authors of Marriage, Thistles & Flowers, Navigating the Storm and Charting the Course. 

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Books By Barnabas & Grace Achoki

“Impacting lives with Christian literature”

Navigating the Storm

So often after the honeymoon is over, couples enter into the drama stage where they are faced with many conflicts as they adjust to each other. Failure to navigate conflict well leaves many couples hurt and greatly wounded. Those who survive do so carrying forward in their marriage, dysfunctional ways of dealing with conflict.
This book is designed to equip the reader with necessary tools and skills to help navigate conflict well. It is also recommended for equipping Mentor Couples and marital counsellors & coaches.
You will learn how to:
• Identify your fears and expectations
• Empathise with your spouse, and
• Resolve conflict in marriage.

The manual comes with a His & Hers journal.

Marriage, Thistles & Flowers

A must-read for every married couple, Marriage, Thistles & Flowers book provides answers to the most commonly asked questions about marriage in the 21st century. Barnie and Grace Achoki provide answers and insight on hundreds of questions that have been asked by writers to their Newspaper’s Relationships Column over the last several years.

Where to Get Books

“Impacting lives with Christian literature”

Kenya. Uganda. South Africa. Eswatini. Botswana. Zimbabwe. Nigeria

Argentina. Aruba. Bolivia. Chili. Colombia. Costa Rica. Ecuadoe. El Salvador. Spain. USA. Guatemala. Honduras. Mexico. Nicaragua. Panama. Paraguay. Peru. Puerto Rico. Dominican Republicc. Uruguay. Venezuela. United Kingdom

Achokis Book Selected for Read With Me at Mama Africa Book Box 2026

Connecting to Readers

Join The Achokis at Read With Me at Mama Africa Book Box

Achokis Book Awarded a Double Translation: Spanish + Italian, 2024

Global Reach

From Nairobi to Bogotá: The Achokis’ Book Launches in Spanish-Speaking Nations

Exploring New Markets for African Christian Literature By Dr. Muthoni Omukhango, CLC Kenya What began as a humble vision in the heart of Nairobi has now blossomed into a cross-continental reality. Marriage, Thistles & Flowers, authored by Kenya’s beloved Marriage coaching duo—The Achokis—has officially been translated into Spanish and launched…

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Social Media Updates

Global Reach

Achokis Authorship Journey, 2023

Storytelling Series

Barnabas Achoki Joins the Judging Panel

Contributing towards quality in Christian authorship

Barnie Achoki – Author | Marriage & Relationship Coach | Lead Pastor – Abundant Life Community Church | Co-Founder and Director – Two Ships Solutions (Judge 2023-2025)

Achokis Authorship Journey, 2022

Storytelling Series

Achokis Authorship Journey, 2021

Storytelling Series

Barnie & Grace Achoki’s Writing Journey

Stealing my father’s books to read changed my journey My name is Barnie Achoki, I was a good student of English though I took sciences at my A Levels. I developed a desire to write in primary school from my elder brother who during school holidays he would write short…

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Articles by The Achokis

More than a book…

A Healthy Marriage – Marriages That Work

The other day we received an email from someone inviting Grace and I to speak to a group of young couples in Karen. The topic of discussion was a very interesting one, “A Healthy Marriage”. So, I began to ask myself “what constitutes a healthy marriage?” I know some people…

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Why Good Men Cheat

Why do men cheat? This is a question that has been asked since time in memorial. There’s a feeling that men are the ones more likely to cheat even though in this day and age, we are finding that women are also cheating on their husbands. These are topics that…

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Are You Servicing Your Marriage – Marriage That Works

Many years ago, the “Check Engine” light came on in my new BMW on my way to a wedding. I panicked as I didn’t know what that meant. I thought my expensive new car’s engine was gone and couldn’t imagine how much that was going to cost seeing that BMW…

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You Never Walk Alone

Are you part of a Community? Do you have people you do live with? Do you have a group of couples you are doing Marriage with? My favorite team in the English Premier League is Liverpool. Their slogan is “You never walk alone” YNWA. I like it because it connotes…

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How ACABA is Shaping Leadership in Africa

Testimonials

CLC Has Raised My Profile As A Credible Christian Author – Esther Katende

Esther Katende

I was excited that I had become an author and had “arrived”. Until I started reading the writing journeys of the ACABA authors on a Nominees forum like this one. People talked of being on their 4th, 7th and even 10th book! Wow… I was challenged! Read more “CLC Has Raised My Profile As A Credible Christian Author – Esther Katende”

Esther Katende Magezi, UG

I’ve elevated the delivery of my monthly meetings with enthusiasm in the same way I’ve observed from CLC Kenya – Warimu Kanyi

Wairimu

In the same way that I have been stretched to venture outside my comfort zone and not remain satisfied with writing one good book, I have been pushing the ladies I serve more passionately. Read more “I’ve elevated the delivery of my monthly meetings with enthusiasm in the same way I’ve observed from CLC Kenya – Warimu Kanyi”

Wairimu Kanyi, KE

The book which won the ACABA award in the Family & Marriage category has given us a lot of boost to our already great influence in this area – Barnabas & Grace Achoki

Achokis

Many Churches and Couple groups are now using the book thanks to CLC. Someone once told me that you cannot be an authority in anything without authoring a book. CLC has made us authors thus qualifying us as Authorities in the sphere of Marriage and Family. Read more “The book which won the ACABA award in the Family & Marriage category has given us a lot of boost to our already great influence in this area – Barnabas & Grace Achoki”

Barnabas & Grace Achoki, KE

CLC has been of great help in growing my communication skills through the weekly meetings – Patience Kamarunga

We are tasked to speak out while contributing to the various discussions, this has given me a platform to learn more about public speaking while overcoming stage fright and developing my eloquence. Thank you CLC. Read more “CLC has been of great help in growing my communication skills through the weekly meetings – Patience Kamarunga”

Patience Kamarunga, UG

Everyone in the group is given a chance to lead in the area they are good at – Lydia Chola-Waiyaki

Lydia

Again, I appreciate the work CLC has done in organizing all authors into the different category of groups. Within the groups we are able to focus on growing in our abilities and sharpening one another’s skills. Read more “Everyone in the group is given a chance to lead in the area they are good at – Lydia Chola-Waiyaki”

Lydia Chola-Waiyaki, KE

To my shock and dismay, my manuscript was declared substandard. I was distraught and discouraged – Nelly Kagoru

I take this opportunity to say kudos to the entire CLC Kenya/ACABA team. Your passion, professionalism, perfection, and personal touch as you serve the Body of Christ is admirable. Read more “To my shock and dismay, my manuscript was declared substandard. I was distraught and discouraged – Nelly Kagoru”

Nelly Kagoruu, KE

I am empowered to lead. Here’s my Journey of faith and purpose in authorship – Sipokazi Somzana

When I first learned that my book had won an award, I was overwhelmed with surprise and gratitude. Competing as a first-time author among some of Africa’s best was humbling. Yet, in that moment, God reminded me: this was never about me. This book is His tool, a vessel of His gospel, and a testament to His love. Read more “I am empowered to lead. Here’s my Journey of faith and purpose in authorship – Sipokazi Somzana”

Sipokazi Somzana, SA

My work as a Christian lawyer, author, and educator: Bridging faith and society – Dr. Ernest Katwesigye

I am a Christian Lawyer, Writer, Educationist and Transformational Leadership/Theology Scholar. I work with the Government of Uganda as a Supervisor Prosecutions in the Inspectorate of Government. I also serve as the Executive Director of the Institute for National Transformation, and are a Part-Time Lecturer at Uganda Technology and Management… Read more “My work as a Christian lawyer, author, and educator: Bridging faith and society – Dr. Ernest Katwesigye”

Dr. Ernest Katwesigye

Winning the award as the best book in men and women category has enhanced my credibility and visibility, and appeal to readers, bookstores, libraries, and media – Oluoch Oketch

My name is Oluoch Oketch. I am very passionate about positive masculinity. Currently we are having a lot of abuse cases in our country. We have seen children turn against parents, against their siblings, their teachers, their girlfriends and boyfriends. We have seen men burn, kill and maim their wives… Read more “Winning the award as the best book in men and women category has enhanced my credibility and visibility, and appeal to readers, bookstores, libraries, and media – Oluoch Oketch”

Oluoch Oketch

My ecstasy went off the off when I learnt that I won the award for Christian Living (ACABA 2024) and runner up Men and Women Category – Blessing Omoregie Orowhe

Hi there, My name is Blessing Omoregie Orowhe. I am the lead consultant at The PEN HOUSE Nigeria. A media and publishing company with diverse interest along helping writers and organizations ideate, and birth their book or writing projects. As an African award winning writer, it’s interesting to see how… Read more “My ecstasy went off the off when I learnt that I won the award for Christian Living (ACABA 2024) and runner up Men and Women Category – Blessing Omoregie Orowhe”

Blessing Omoregie Orowhe

ACABA has opened my eyes to the vast potential of my calling and the impact I can make through my writing – Blenda Nakkazi

I am a dedicated people developer with a mission to equip, empower, and edify individuals entrusted to my journey, enabling me to fulfill my purpose as inspired by Isaiah 50:4: “He has taught me what to say so that I can strengthen the weary.” As the author of *Overpowering a… Read more “ACABA has opened my eyes to the vast potential of my calling and the impact I can make through my writing – Blenda Nakkazi”

Blenda Nakkazi

ACABA has made me realize the importance of legacy. What legacy will I leave behind? What will I be known for? Therefore, I choose to be remembered for communicating nothing but the truth that sets people free – Zinhle Ramashala

My name is Zinhle Ramashala, founder of Arise and Shine Heirs, an organization dedicated to healing, equipping, and empowering humanity to discover and maximize their full potential, and to fulfill their God-given purpose through services and programs that effect positive change. His Story My Life Book has created a conducive… Read more “ACABA has made me realize the importance of legacy. What legacy will I leave behind? What will I be known for? Therefore, I choose to be remembered for communicating nothing but the truth that sets people free – Zinhle Ramashala”

Zinhle Ramashala

This year, CLC Kenya partnered with me for the pre-event, hosting a mental health webinar on World Suicide Prevention Awareness Day (September 10th) – Angela Nsimbi

I am Angela Nsimbi, an author of two books and still counting. My second book, Arise and Shine, was nominated for the ACABA/CLC Kenya 2024 awards. To my surprise and delight, I was honored as the Winner of the Book Cover of the Year 2024! This recognition was unexpected, making… Read more “This year, CLC Kenya partnered with me for the pre-event, hosting a mental health webinar on World Suicide Prevention Awareness Day (September 10th) – Angela Nsimbi”

Angela Nsimbi

ACABA has introduced me to a network of authors and leaders, further supporting my mission of faith-based personal growth. – Judy Owiti

I am a Youth Empowerment Coach, certified trainer, and transformational speaker passionate about helping young adults develop essential life skills for success. Through mentorship, training, and speaking engagements, I equip young people with confidence, resilience, and clarity. I am also the author of the award-winning book Transform Your Life: A… Read more “ACABA has introduced me to a network of authors and leaders, further supporting my mission of faith-based personal growth. – Judy Owiti”

Judy Owiti
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